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7 Reasons Why We Celebrate New Year: For Hope, Memories, and Resolutions?

Why we celebrate? Let’s be real: the New Year is one of those days where everyone suddenly becomes super optimistic. The gym memberships skyrocket, planners sell out, and we’re all convinced this is the year.

But for me, celebrating New Year isn’t just about resolutions (most of which I’ll forget by March, let’s be honest). Or partying all night (even though I always do it for new year). It’s about something deeper—and a lot more fun.

So, why do I celebrate New Year? Let me take you on a little journey.

Let’s go beyond the festivities. Delving into the psychology behind New Year celebrations in a simple way

1. Why Starting Fresh in the New Year Feels Magical

You know that feeling when you open a brand-new notebook? That crisp, clean page staring at you, full of possibilities? That’s what a new year feels like to me. It’s a chance to wipe the slate clean. A fresh start.

Why starting fresh on New Year feels transformative?

New Year traditions are not just fun—they tap into the psychology of fresh starts, giving us hope and energy for the year ahead. Psychologists call it the “fresh start effect.”

We all need one, don’t we? Life gets messy, and the New Year gives me that excuse to say, “Okay, last year might’ve been chaos, but this year? This year, I’ve got this.”

Wanna go deep into its psychology? You can check this article published in Psychology Today

2. How yearly milestones help me appreciate life.

I don’t know about you, but I remember life in years.

  • 2016: I visited the Himalayas and fell in love with their sheer majesty.
  • 2021: I coached my very first client—my best friend (who still thinks I was just “helping out,” but I count it!).

It’s almost like I’ve bookmarked my life by years. When I think about it, it’s easier to say, “Oh, that was my 2016 self!” rather than just vaguely remembering a random moment. The New Year celebration reminds me to look back and appreciate these milestones.

3. Hope Is My Favorite Emotion

A new year is full of possibilities. Anything can happen.

I don’t know about you, but that thought makes me giddy. There’s this excitement in the air, like something magical is just around the corner. Maybe this will be the year I try something totally unexpected, like skydiving (okay, maybe not that unexpected) or finally learning to bake the perfect cake(quite possible with my perfect cooking skills 😂).

And sure, it’s the time for big goals—like growing my coaching business or helping someone achieve their dreams. But it’s also about the little things. Like hoping I’ll finally wake up with the sun.

4. Childhood Nostalgia Is the Best

Ah, New Year’s Eve as a kid—those were the days!

My family would gather around the TV, waiting for midnight. Sometimes we’d play games in the new year party, sometimes we’d just eat snacks cosily and wait for the clock to strike 12. The excitement was well, exciting 😂.

Who would be the first to shout “Happy New Year”?

Why we celebrate new year? Childhood Nostalgia

Looking back, it wasn’t about the fireworks or the countdown; it was about being together, sharing that moment. Even now, as an adult, I try to recreate that magic in small ways. It’s a reminder of simpler, happier times.

My article on Life without festivals talks about these celebrations.

5. It’s a Time to Celebrate YOU

The New Year isn’t just about the fireworks or the resolutions or even the memories. It’s about celebrating you.

Take a moment and think about what you’ve done this past year. Maybe it wasn’t perfect (whose year is?), but you’ve grown, learned, and survived. That deserves a celebration!

So, this year, I’ll be grateful for all the little victories: the moments I laughed until I cried, the new clients I helped, and even the times I made it through a tough day.

6. What is The Psychology Behind New Year Resolutions

Ah, New Year’s resolutions—the tradition we love to hate. But hear me out: resolutions aren’t just cheesy cliches.

At their core, they reflect our deep-seated desire for self-improvement and control over our lives. When we set specific, achievable goals, we align with three key psychological needs:

  • Competence: Feeling capable and proud of our achievements.
  • Autonomy: Knowing we’re in charge of our own destiny.
  • Relatedness: Strengthening our bonds with others through shared goals.

Resolutions, when done right, aren’t just about ticking boxes—they’re about becoming the best version of yourself. And honestly, what better time to start than the New Year?

If you are still wondering about your new year resolutions, I have recently published an astrology based framework to set new year resolutions for a fun twist. Don’t forget to check that.

7. Marking Time Makes Life Meaningful

New Year’s is like a bookmark in the story of our lives. It reminds us to pause, reflect, and look ahead. Life can be chaotic, and having these temporal markers helps us make sense of it all.

It’s like taking a moment to breathe, to appreciate where you’ve been, and to dream about where you’re going.

Why Not Make New Year Celebrations a Tradition?

If you’re someone who doesn’t usually celebrate New Year, maybe this is your sign to start. It doesn’t have to be extravagant. Light a candle, write down some goals, or just dance to your favorite song at midnight.

Life’s too short not to celebrate, don’t you think?

Here’s to 2025 & to why we celebrate 🎉

Here’s to fresh starts, cherished memories, and the hope of something amazing waiting for us in 2025. Happy New Year, my friend. Let’s make it unforgettable! 🎉

What are your New Year traditions or memories? Share them with me—I’d love to hear how you celebrate this beautiful, messy, hopeful life! 🌟

And if this is the year you decide to invest in yourself and your goals, I’d love to help you on that journey. As a life coach, I specialize in turning your hopes and dreams into actionable plans. Let’s make this year the start of something extraordinary! 🌟 Want to Know More about how I help? Click here.

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How to timepass for faster Law of Attraction manifestations?

Have you ever noticed how the more you obsess over something, the longer it takes to happen? Whether it’s a job offer, a relationship, or manifesting your dream life, the Law of Attraction works best when you stop clinging to the outcome. But here’s the tricky part—how do you stop thinking about something you really want? The answer: timepass! Yes, keeping yourself joyfully occupied is one of the best ways to allow your desires to flow naturally into your life.

The Secret of Detachment

When you’re constantly checking, doubting, or overanalyzing, you send signals of lack and impatience to the universe. Instead of attracting what you want, you create resistance. The solution? Detach. And the easiest way to detach is to engage in fulfilling activities that make you feel good. When you’re genuinely enjoying life, you naturally shift to a high-vibrational state—exactly where manifestations happen faster!

Want to know the pyscholocial angle to law of attraction, check it here in this blog.

I remember a time when I was anxiously waiting for a job offer. Every morning, I’d check my inbox multiple times, wondering why there was no response yet. The stress was eating me up. So, I decided to take a step back and focus on things I enjoyed—reading, cooking, and spending time with friends. A week later, when I had completely let go of my anxiety, the offer letter arrived! That was my biggest lesson in trusting the universe.

Fun Ways to ‘Timepass’ While Manifesting

1. Engage in Creative Activities

Creativity is one of the most powerful ways to distract yourself while keeping your vibration high. Activities like painting, writing, music, or even gardening can immerse you in the present moment. When you lose yourself in creation, you stop worrying about ‘when’ your desires will arrive—and that’s when they often do! Plus, engaging in creative work enhances your subconscious manifestation process.

I personally love writing. When I was manifesting a new opportunity, I started blogging about my experiences. Not only did it help me stay occupied, but it also connected me with like-minded people who eventually helped me land a dream project.

2. Spend Quality Time with Loved Ones

Nothing shifts energy like heartfelt laughter and genuine conversations. Meet up with friends, spend time with family, or even call an old friend. Emotional connection lifts your spirits and makes waiting for your manifestations effortless. The higher your vibration, the faster you align with your desires. This article on festivals and their importance in our lives, talks about the same.

I recall a phase when I was fixated on a goal that wasn’t materializing. Instead of sulking, I made it a point to catch up with old friends and spend quality time with my family. That shift in energy not only made me feel happier but also led to unexpected opportunities coming my way!

3. Move Your Body

Physical activity helps you release pent-up energy and stress. Whether it’s yoga, dancing, jogging, or simply taking a long walk, movement helps clear mental clutter, making space for new possibilities to flow in. Exercise also releases endorphins, keeping you in an optimistic state of mind.

During one particularly stressful period, I started morning runs just to clear my head. Not only did I feel better physically, but I also noticed that things I had been struggling with—work-related decisions, personal dilemmas—started resolving themselves effortlessly.

4. Dive into Learning

Ever wanted to learn a new skill? Now is the perfect time! Read books, take an online course, or explore a subject you’ve always been curious about. Not only does this shift your focus, but it also prepares you for unexpected opportunities that align with your desires. Expanding your knowledge enhances your ability to receive and recognize new manifestations.

I once spent weeks waiting for a travel visa to come through. Instead of worrying, I enrolled in an online course. The course not only kept me engaged, but once I got my visa, I had an additional skill set to take with me on my journey!

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5. Indulge in Self-Care

Pampering yourself is a wonderful way to stay in alignment. A spa day, meditation, journaling, or even enjoying your favorite meal can raise your energy and put you in the perfect state to receive what you’ve been manifesting. The more relaxed and joyful you feel, the more you attract positive experiences.

I’ve noticed that whenever I take a self-care day—be it a massage, reading a good book, or simply treating myself to a nice meal—things seem to fall into place effortlessly. It’s as if the universe rewards me for taking care of myself!

Trust the Process

The universe is always at work behind the scenes. Your role is to trust the process and keep your energy in a place of joy and positivity. Check this article for more on same, don’t worry about the heading. When you overthink and worry about the ‘when’ and ‘how,’ you introduce resistance. Instead, take inspired action, do things you love, and let go of the outcome. The magic happens when you least expect it.

Take Action

So, what’s your favorite way to ‘timepass’ while waiting for your dreams to manifest? Drop a comment below and share your thoughts! If this resonated with you, share it with someone who needs to hear it today.

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Life Without Festivals: What’s the Impact on Mental Health?

firecrackers to celebrate the festival. How festivals impact our mental health

Yes, Beyond the sparkle and the noise, festivals have a profound impact on mental health. They are not just about traditions; they’re about emotional well-being.

Have you ever wondered what life would feel like without them? No lights, no colors, no community celebrations. Just the same day repeating over and over. Sounds dreary, doesn’t it?

The Void Left by Festivals

Imagine waking up on what would normally be a festival day—no decorations, no special food, no family gatherings. It’s just another regular day. Doesn’t it feel like something essential is missing? Festivals give us something to look forward to, a reason to pause and celebrate life.

Without festivals:

  • Emotional fatigue creeps in. There’s no break from the monotony, which can weigh heavily on our mental health.
  • Social connections weaken. Festivals are a time to bond, laugh, and share. Without them, loneliness can set in.
  • A sense of purpose diminishes. Celebrations remind us of our cultural roots and bring meaning to our routines.

I often feel, with loved ones celebrating our achievements, victories take on new meaning. Conversely, perhaps celebrations have a life of their own and we are mere spectators of this dance of life.

The Mental Health Benefits of Festivals

Let’s talk about how festivals make us feel alive. Beyond the parties and rituals, they have a significant impact on mental health:

  1. Festivals Reduce Stress
    Ever noticed how preparing for a festival, though hectic, fills you with excitement? It’s because festivals offer a break from the daily grind, lowering stress levels and provide a much-needed mental reset.
  2. They Create Moments of Joy
    From the first bite of festive sweets to the warm hug from an old friend, festivals are packed with little joys. These moments boost dopamine—the “feel-good” hormone—keeping us happy and motivated.
  3. They Build Stronger Connections
    Celebrating together strengthens bonds. Whether it’s with family, friends, or neighbors, festivals remind us we’re part of a larger community. This sense of belonging is crucial for mental well-being.

Celebrations bring families and communities together, offering a break from routine and a chance to focus on positivity. Research shows that engaging in social and cultural rituals can significantly improve mental health by reducing stress and boosting happiness.

Even the smallest rituals, like blowing out a birthday candle, can evoke nostalgia and reignite childhood joy. These moments are more than traditions; they’re emotional lifelines.

What Happens to Mental Health Without Festivals?

When festivals are absent, life can feel… empty. The impact on mental health is undeniable:

  • Increased Stress and Anxiety: With no festive distractions, daily worries take center stage, amplifying stress.
  • Loneliness: Without gatherings, the lack of social interaction can lead to isolation and sadness.
  • Loss of Cultural Identity: Festivals tie us to our roots. Without them, we risk feeling adrift, disconnected from our heritage.

How to Cope in a World Without Festivals

If circumstances prevent us from celebrating festivals as we traditionally would, we can still find ways to keep their spirit alive:

  • Create Small Celebrations: Light a candle, cook a festive dish, or call your loved ones. Even small acts can bring joy.
  • Focus on Gratitude: Festivals are about thankfulness. Reflect on what you’re grateful for and make it a celebration of life.
  • Stay Connected: Use technology to connect with friends and family. Virtual gatherings can still create a sense of togetherness.

Why Festivals Matter for Our Well-Being

Since ancient times multiple reasons have been propounded for celebrations. May it be, the repeated birthday celebrations or the customary celebrations of nature, like the first harvest or rains. Every story related to mythology or religion calls for a celebration. It makes me wonder, is it possible that all these reasons are mere excuses? And, if there is a deeper meaning behind the systematic propagation of festivals over the ages.

Have you noticed, even a few minutes together with loved ones lift our gloomy mood? Actually, it can be explained better in terms of energy – when many people spend happy moments together, the energy grows exponentially.

The impact on mental health of not having festivals is a reminder to value these moments of joy and connection. Life without festivals might sound quieter, but it’s also emptier.

Festivals remind us that life is about more than work and responsibilities—they’re about joy, community, and meaning. So, even when life feels monotonous, find your reasons to celebrate.

Isn’t it time to appreciate the boon of celebrations? To be thankful to our ancestors for devising so many ways to celebrate the trivialities.

Are you now feeling like calling your friends to schedule a celebration over a fictitious excuse? 😉 Do it. Your heart will thank you.

If you liked this, don’t forget to read my recent article on 7 reasons why we celebrate new year

Hi, I’m a life coach and blogger with a passion for spreading positivity and helping others find their true potential. Let’s connect and explore how you can express yourself authentically and confidently. I’d love to hear from you!

Career Growth & Life Coach Shailaja Shankar

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Self Love – The most misunderstood word

Self-love is a term that’s often misunderstood. Many people question its true meaning:

  • Is self-love about taking revenge if someone wronged you?
  • Is it about getting what you want, even if you steal it from someone else?
  • Is it about being selfish and not caring about others?
  • Is it about being self-obsessed?

The answer to all these questions is a resounding NO. Self-love is about valuing yourself, but not at the cost of others. It’s about understanding your worth and not settling for less than you deserve. It’s about setting boundaries and not allowing others to take advantage of you. It’s about taking care of your mental, emotional, and physical health.

Self-love is not about being selfish; it’s about self-respect. It’s not about being self-obsessed; it’s about self-awareness. It’s not about taking revenge; it’s about letting go of toxic people and situations. It’s not about getting what you want at any cost; it’s about working hard and earning it.

In today’s world, self-love is often portrayed as indulging in luxuries or putting oneself above others. However, true self-love is about balance. It’s about knowing when to say no and when to say yes. It’s about understanding that you cannot pour from an empty cup; you need to take care of yourself first before you can take care of others.

So, the next time someone tells you that self-love is selfish, remember that it’s the most misunderstood word. Embrace self-love, not as a luxury, but as a necessity. Because when you love yourself, you set the standard for how others should love you.

For more insights on personal growth and self-empowerment, you might find our article on Vipassana Meditation helpful.


Self-Love: The Most Misunderstood Word

In today’s fast-paced world, the term “self-love” is frequently mentioned, yet often misunderstood. Many equate self-love with selfishness or vanity, but in reality, it’s about recognizing one’s worth and treating oneself with kindness and respect.

Common Misconceptions About Self-Love

Self-Love Equals Selfishness

A prevalent myth is that practicing self-love means being self-centered. However, genuine self-love involves understanding and accepting oneself, which in turn enhances our ability to connect with and support others.

Self-Love Is About Perfection

Many believe that to love oneself, one must be flawless. On the contrary, self-love is about embracing imperfections and acknowledging that making mistakes is part of the human experience. Healthline emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to make mistakes as a step toward achieving total self-love.

Self-Love Means Being Alone

Some think that self-love requires isolation. While spending time alone can be beneficial, self-love also encompasses building meaningful relationships and seeking support when needed. Psych Central highlights that self-love involves treating yourself with the same empathetic love and kindness you would offer to someone close to you.

The True Essence of Self-Love

At its core, self-love is about:

  • Self-Acceptance: Embracing who you are, with all your strengths and weaknesses.
  • Self-Compassion: Being kind to yourself, especially during times of failure or hardship.
  • Setting Boundaries: Recognizing your limits and ensuring others respect them.
  • Prioritizing Well-Being: Engaging in activities that promote mental, emotional, and physical health.

Practical Steps to Cultivate Self-Love

when you make yourself a priority, you learn true self love

Practice Mindfulness

Engage in activities like meditation or journaling to become more attuned to your thoughts and feelings.

Affirmations

Regularly remind yourself of your worth and capabilities.

Seek Professional Support

If needed, consult with a therapist or counselor to work through challenges and build a healthier relationship with yourself.

By understanding and embracing the true meaning of self-love, we can lead more fulfilling lives and foster deeper connections with others.

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‘I Always Make Bad Decisions.’ So What, Get Over It Now.

“I have made so many wrong decisions in the past.”

I have heard this non-stop cribbing so many times. And I have just one thing to say. We get opportunities to make choices throughout our life. What if we made some bad ones, why can’t the next ones be better? Aren’t we learning from our bad choices? There is never a permanent choice, even if it is a bad marriage, bankruptcy, irreparable body damage. All our bad choices just lead us to a different path. Life is always delivering us gifts that we may choose to open or not. Let’s learn from those who have overcome their obstacles and became an inspiration for others, like Stephen Hawking, Nick Vujicic, Malala Yousafzai…

Even if you are not an inspiration to the world, at least you can be proud of yourself in the mirror if you lead your life by making the right choices. Learn from the past and just make a bit better choice in present. Unless you are dead, life is giving you opportunities to make better choices every moment.

Have you seen anyone in the world without regret? There are only those who allot lifetimes thinking about them or those who allot a few months in life and then move ahead. And sometimes crying over bad decisions lead us to worse, as our focus is only on problems and not on solutions.

I have too many regrets over my bad decisions, so I have decided to spend a few mins every year thinking about them. After all, life is too funny, interesting, ever-changing to spend any more time on regrets.

Whenever something bad happens in life, I just try to tie it all and restrict it to that one bad chapter. Its spillover cannot be stopped but reduced over the next chapters of life.

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Side effects of Law of Attraction

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This is not a blog on Law of Attraction manifestations, instead, it is on the delicious side effects of LoA. Just wonderful, the way my life has changed.

Similar to the other LoA followers, “The Secret” introduced me to LoA. And since then, I am hooked. I may not be consistent with my manifestations, and I am definitely not over the clouds all the time. As is the culture around, I tend to forget gratitude and crib at times. And that’s how I sometimes manifest a mixed bag of events. In spite of it all, I have manifested many beautiful things in life, but this blog is not about that.

This blog is about how LoA has perpetually changed my life. My outlook towards life has completely shifted. I no more look at things as permanent, especially when something bad happens. Any plight, fight or predicament – changes. So whenever something not so happening happens, I stay positive and wait for a few days. After all, the more positive I am, the more the situation transforms itself. No more bad bosses, bad colleagues, or bad companies. I no more care about what people say or think cause they will obviously change their opinion about me. I only focus on what I want and the rest happens on its own. And all these are not my manifestations, just how life is nowadays.

I have become an optimist. I now understand how every cloud has a silver lining. Doesn’t everything turn out great in the course of time?

Unlike before, life is easier now. Every time I take a decision I leave the ending to God, with a prayer that whatever happens is for my best. It’s not that I no more make mistakes, but I do not suffer them that much. In fact, I now make much more strong decisions than before.

I trust my intuition more, I meditate more, and I laugh more. A lot of things may still not be happening in my life, but overall, I am a happy person. My present is much more beautiful than my past. And the future, which exists only in my mind is a beautiful dream and not a nightmare anymore.

I guess, this will be a cheat sheet if I do not mention the negative side effects. I have majorly observed these side-effects during earlier stages. Some people become overconfident and take rash decisions. Wait! take a pause! cause it will stabilize within a few months. Better to not take any drastic decisions in the earlier practices. Let intuition develop first. After intuition develops, decisions will no more be rash they will just be risky (worth taking).

Some people expect life to be hunky-dory all the time with LoA. Well, this is not how life is designed. LoA is there, to not unnecessarily invite trouble. Instead, when there are ups and downs, let the ups go higher and the lows not as low as before. And LoA is not to make you delusional, but to make your reality rosier. Nothing wrong to expect the actualization of impossible dreams, they do happen. But there is a difference between dreaming of flying and jumping from a building. If you dream to fly, LoA will give you multiple opportunities to do so. The way Wright brothers got them. Instead, if you decide to jump without understanding Life & LoA, then it will be invited trouble.

Truth be told, even if LoA does not work, it still can make life beautiful. With the right attitude, driving on curvy roads is enchanting, A roller coaster ride is fun. And rains means rainbows.

Staying true to the topic, I haven’t mentioned the beauty of manifestations which is like the icing on the cake 😉

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